Cuddles, Cuddles, Cuddles…
Conscious Relating Circle held fortnightly with Conscious Relating Circle..
Being held, or “cuddled” is important for everybody, regardless of age.
We all have witnessed a small child seeking affection through touch, and just how simple yet powerful it is for both the giver and receiver.
But, as we all grow older, something changes and there is less emphasis on cuddling purely for the sake of cuddling and more towards gratification.
Admittedly, our needs also change as we get older, but the underlying fact still remains that we all need human contact, affection and connection.
It doesn’t matter who we are, how old we are or whether we are single or not, conscious cuddling and non sexual touch is hugely important for all of us.
This is the foundation belief that is behind our facilitated Tantric Cuddle Space by Annette & Graeme of Oztantra.
Relationships and cuddles..
It doesn’t matter if your in a long term relationship, every body needs connection and the way these evenings are facilitated as clear, profound as well as very healing and nurturing.
This space is focused on creating a safe, healing and structured experience for all those present, with an outcome of deep connection, not only with your self but with others as well. At all stages, clothes remain on and any touch is consensual first and definitely non sexual. It is perfectly ok to sit by yourself and say “NO” all evening….
We don’t screen participants, as in our experience any problems usually remain outside the door. If you show up intoxicated or under the influence of substances, you will not be permitted to enter. Also, at all stages, there is one of us sitting out and watching. If some one needs assistance for what ever reason, all they need do is raise their hand and assistance is right there.
Any inappropriate touching or behavior is not tolerated by facilitators Annette & Graeme.
Tantric Cuddle Space is quite simple, yet is also a space that is deeply healing for those with inner child wounds, sexual abuse or are just plain touch deprived or lonely. If you have been a victim and desire to see if this will work for you, simply talk to us before hand and we can support you in gaining an experience that will work you.
The space is structured and facilitated by professional’s Annette & Graeme of Oztantra.
What do we do with our Sexuality…. ?
We call our space a Tantric Cuddle Space because we are slightly different in one important aspect. We don’t prevent your sexual energy from arising, instead we give you a new way in how to be in yourself in your energy and not needing anybody to fulfill your needs. This is often a new experience, especially for men and also for women. We do this by using an ancient and guided meditation practice that we have adapted specifically for this space, called a Puja.
Each evening starts with a group sharing then into a structured meditation circle called a Puja. In the Puja, you’re guided through a series of experiences that will connect you with yourself at a deeper level, and experience your connection with yourself with others. This also includes dealing with your sexual energy that may or may not arise during the evening. If your energy does arise, we have already given you a healthy new frame work during the Puja in how to deal with your sexual energy in a way that honor’s this important aspect of yourself.
Men learn and experience how to contain their energy with “leaking” and women experience how to feel their own energy and set healthy boundary’s that will keep “predatory” energy away.
If this is a new experience for you, then you will be pleasantly surprised how powerful connecting with your energy will be for you in this way.
If your a victim of abuse, either physical, sexual or emotional, you will find this space supportive, safe and deeply healing.
Non sexual touch is a powerful healing experience and this space is facilitated, supported and encouraged to meet these needs.
Rules for all participants…
Tantric Cuddle Space also has some RULES….
Always ask before entering into someone else’s space…..
- NO means NO. A “maybe” or other half committed answer is also a “NO”
- Clothes stay on at all times
- Wear comfortable and loose clothing
- Personal hygiene is important, honor yourself by being clean
- Be on time, as the door closes to create the group space and container
- Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want or don’t want
- If your feeling frightened or challenged, ASK by putting your hand in the air
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