So often we make this trade off in relationships.
For example:
“I’d love to ask for more time in foreplay so I can really relax, but I’m so afraid of hurting my partners’ feelings or even worse- having my request ignored.”
“It seems that we never have time to talk. I really want to carve out some time in our lives to talk in a way that leaves us connected but I am scared of being rejected. Or having time to talk and finding noting to say!”
“I’m so bored with our sex life and would love to turn up its erotic heat. I’m worried that if I can’t do this I’ll start looking elsewhere. I’m even more worried that my partner will make me feel wrong or will think I don’t love them anymore. Which is definitely not the case!”
“It feels like we are really in a flat spot going nowhere. I’d love to make some changes but I’m not sure where to start. And I’m scared of where the changes might take us.”
And so on…
It becomes a holding pattern that keeps your relationship engine on idle, but not fulfilling its potential.
Leaving neither of you really happy. Or truly connected. Or perhaps blissful.
How would it be to be in a place where you can say what you really want?
What you really need?
How would it be to show up authentically, rather than hide and deny your relationship what it most needs- YOU!
How would it be to be REAL?
AND create more CONNECTION, more LOVE, more SPARK and more JUICE in your relationship?
You can learn the exact tools to:
Create more presence in yourself and with your partner that leaves you with lasting intimacy and glorious lovemaking.
Communicate fearlessly so you can better understand each others fears, wants, needs and desires.
Become more emotionally skilled you can listen without blowing off, collapsing or storming out of conversations.
Learn to value difference and the unique gifts that each of you bring to your relationship.
Learn to really connect with your bodies and discover their deeper delights in a way that you can BOTH get excited about.
All these things are possible with the right support and training.
And if you think you don’t need training to have the best relationship or the best sex of your life, you’re seriously missing out.
Without it you’re likely recreating the relationship of your past, or your parents…and having sex based on instinct without the power of your largest sex organ- your brain!
Get in touch today and book in a free, no obligation 30min chat with Annette and Graeme to put your fears to rest and begin creating positive change…
PS. If you feel like this might be right for you but have questions HIT the REPLY button and get them sorted FAST…
Both you and your relationship deserve it…
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