What Coming Together Covers:
Coming Together covers all the things you’ve been longing to know about rewarding intimacy, truly great sex and much, much more:
Here is a Chapter outline (or for a sneak peak at the opening pages click here)
Setting the Stage for Intimacy- We begin with understanding the nature of relationship and intimacy- where it has come from, where it’s going and why it’s a lack of training rather than a lack of love that ends relationships. We end up with learning that real intimacy starts inside of us!
Surrender & Freedom- We show how and why the power of your emotions, feelings and vulnerability is the pathway to your intimate heart connection and why it is worthwhile looking into this messy part of life. This is because they paradoxically offer you the freedom and connection you long for. Sometimes even at the same time!
Separation, Connection & Control- Here you’ll find understandings in the dance of intimacy, learning to be yourself whilst remaining in connection with another. As well as identifying where you could use some greater independence in your relationship, and where you’d benefit from more connection. We also show you how you can step out of the blame game and create more love and closeness.
Self, Self & Self- This chapter teaches you how to learn more than you ever thought necessary about yourself, and why this is a necessary ingredient in relationship. We show you why, despite the idea that relationship is about being there for the other person, we show you that relationship starts with being selfish. You’ll discover what challenges you to move away from yourself and finding the ways that bring you back again. You’ll also learn about using personal boundaries to bring you safely near and how to ask for what you want without shooting yourself in the foot.
The Fine Art of Communication- otherwise known as the Finer Art of The Shitfight! We get real with communication without underestimating the messiness it descends to, and give you tools to move through it, drawing you over time. become closer through it. We explore some of the common communication differences between men and women (without seeing them as absolutes) and how to make the most of them. And finally we discuss how to have the often most difficult conversation of all- the one about sex.
Stuckness & State Change- We all know that feeling of being blocked or stuck with nowhere to go when faced with a relationship problem. We offer practices of state change that can shift you into a place where you can move forward easily. This is without eating the house out, drinking yourself silly or trying to change your partner, (or letting them off the hook) which you know is a losing battle. You’ll also learn where the true power lies in your relationship and step through it into love.
Sex-eptance- Discover why acknowledging and accepting yourself as a sexual being is a powerful part of intimate relationship, no matter how you feel about sex itself. Learn to understand the sexual dynamics that might be playing out in your relationship, both personally and gender specific and how to make the most of them.
Sexploration- At last we get to the chapter on sex. Believe us, it will be worth the wait, as here you’ll find the keys to truly satisfying and even mind blowing relationship sex. You’ll find how even in straightforward sex there is so much on offer over time, if you know were to look. As you reunite love into your relationship sex you’ll find your fires reignited! You’ll discover your unique blocks to pleasure that lie behind your sexual disappointment (and lets face it, most of us are at least a little disappointed in what it offers) and how to resolve them. Finally you’ll see creative ways of dealing with your differences in desire and turn your Volkswagen into a Ferrari!
The Shadow & The Spy- We all have parts of us that we cannot, don’t want to see. However much we don’t want to look these are the places that hold the answers to the problem areas in your relationship that seem insurmountable. Learn how to uncover and heal them, saving yourself and your partner major suffering and the need to walk away from your relationship. This includes dealing with affairs and the impact of porn on your relationship.
Managing The Other- Today more than ever before we live in a world full of intimate opportunities outside of our relationships. How do we deal with our attraction to the cute girl/guy in the coffee shop or the office? We cover how to bring this shadow out into the open and to define and respect your own unique set of healthy relationship boundaries.
What About Love?: After all this talk about sex we offer unique perspectives on love that go a long way to dissolving the long withheld pain you’re managing to create between you as men and women. Discover good food for loving conversations and practices that really let love in.
Shine & Sustain- Bring everything you’ve learned together. Create a strong relationship container for the long run. Understand the process of change in relationship, and know whether it’s really time for your relationship to end. See the signs of an abundant relationship, and the infinite love and energy you’re creating with each other. Love and energy that you can then share with your family and the world around you, so that everyone benefits.
For a sneak peak at the opening pages click here
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