Men are naturally multi orgasmic..
Discovering and connecting with your own inner multiorgasmic man is a natural progression from learning and understanding your deeper sexual self.
Because, All men are naturally multi orgasmic,
And if you’re wondering what this may look or feel like, or even if you find difficulty in imagining how it could be for you, then this page and our surrounding website will certainly point you in the right direction.
All men are naturally multi orgasmic, and with practise you’ll be able to access this aspect of your sexual life force energy with ease.
And, believe it or not, this part of you is not determined by getting an erection…(more about that later…)
This aspect of experiencing your multi orgasmic self as masculine sexual energy is not determined by external physical conditions, such as achieving an
erection, but by you’re ability to fully immerse yourself in your own open hearted connection, in deep intimacy and vulnerability with yourself and your partner.
Yes, becoming “multi orgasmic” is about achieving extraordinary intimacy in yourself and sharing this intimacy and vulnerability with your partner.
If you’re physically challenged in your sexuality, either by surgery or other factors, then don’t despair, as this is even more of an motivation for you to achieve this amazing aspect of your sexuality.
(listen to the Tedtalk link below)
Most men link their ability to achieve pleasure onto their erection and ejaculation, yet this belief is incredibly limiting and a big part of why most men achieve less than 10% of their capacity for pleasure through their sexuality.
This limiting belief holds men in a very limiting sex life, but it simply takes awareness and a belief that there is so much more to learn a new way of looking at the same old tricks…
Recognising that there is so much more to sexual pleasure is crucial
Understanding that as a man you are capable of achieving so much more than what you’re currently experiencing (even in your best fantasy).
Believing there is so much more for you to discover about yourself, is an important aspect of opening up your awareness to what is beyond simply “getting it up and off…”
All it takes is awareness, awareness of how your own sexual energy moves through your body.
If you’re a man who is “trigger sensitive” or challenged in lasting longer, although frustrating, this actually means you’re very close to experiencing your multiorgasmic potential.
This is because you already have an excess of feeling, you just need to learn what to do with it.
This is one of several key factors in achieving the “holy grail” in lovemaking.
As we said the most important being simply aware that being multi orgasmic is possible, especially if you experience physical limitations, such as prostate surgery or erectile dysfunction.
If you have full sexual function, then being able to surf the edge of ejaculation is another method of discovering your deeper sexual energy flow.
“Surfing the edge” takes practise, and this practise is crucial, as not only is this about lasting longer, but also bringing into your awareness your deeper orgasmic energy.
It is very subtle but also very powerful, achieving pleasure beyond anything you’ve ever probably experienced before.
“Surfing the edge” is simple and easy to learn…
Being trigger sensitive is a gift, as it means that your efforts will mainly be focusing on keeping back from the edge of ejaculation while enhancing your orgasmic energy emergence.
Because, ejaculation is ejaculation and different to orgasm and feeling your orgasmic energy is a very different experience to simply “coming”.
Discovering this in yourself simply takes practise with awareness in believing they are different experiences, and focusing on connecting with your own inner energy movements.
Why this can be so challenging, is that most men are easily distracted away from or outside of themselves by their partner, porn or fantasies.
Most men experience limited orgasmic pleasure because they believe ejaculation is orgasm. It is not. It’s pleasurable but it’s just the beginning.
This Podcast will help you understand how to begin your journey in learning these skills in your lovemaking…
Follow this link to more podcasts about learning these tantric lovemaking skills
Experiencing and understanding multi orgasmic energy begins with finding it first… Discovering “Your” Technique
The simplest way to do this for men is surfing the edge, or getting close to the point of no return and simply stopping and taking several deep belly breaths.
Repeating this simple step will greatly enhance your experience, because stopping and breathing returns the ejaculation heat to your body as pleasure.
What this does, is enhance and intensify the different pleasure sensation (your orgasmic energy) you feel in your body BEFORE ejaculation.
From this place, simply connect with where your energy or pleasure is moving in your body.
As ejaculation sensations or energy intensifies, notice where your energy is flowing.
For most men at this point, their energy is shooting out of the end of their lingam (cock) and simply stopping and taking some deep breaths, try and focus on breathing your energy back into your body and up to your heart.
Recognising this different pleasure sensation is your orgasmic energy, which is not reliant on an erection, a partner or porn.
This technique simply takes awareness of what is possible combined with focused practise and connecting your sexuality with your heart using your breath.
Where you focus your breath, your energy will follow…
Recognising this is already in you is the hardest part, as you’re most likely already there, just disconnected from your true orgasmic self.
Practise surfing the edge and noticing your energy sensations at the base of your lingam (cock).
Instead of sending energy (the heat, tingling pleasure you feel) out, take some deep breaths and bring it back in and up to your heart.
Simply keep repeating this practise and you will soon notice subtle differences in your energy flow.
This is the Oztantra Tantric Technique, where you create and recirculate your sexual heart energy. This energy is retained and circulated through your heart and the rest of your body.
If you do choose to ejaculate, take note if your experience is different and, enjoy the ride.
The longer you’re able to delay ejaculation, the more intense and connected your orgasmic energy will become.
This link is to an article we have written as to how often should a man ejaculate…
After Prostate Surgery, Numbness or Erectile Dysfunction..
If your having other issues or have had prostrate surgery, your still capable of learning this amazing and natural part of your sexuality, and this link to a Tedtalk is definitely worth a listen.
This Tedtalk explains and defines an important aspect of how powerful becoming multi orgasmic can be for you.
Simply being aware that you are already multi orgasmic, that orgasm and ejaculation are separate functions, is the first step in opening into and connecting with this amazing part of your masculine sexual birth rite.
Learning how to last longer is a simple and satisfying pathway in learning how to open your heart and connecting not only with your self, but also your partner.
Opening your heart
In my personal opinion and experience, opening my heart to my partner is the most powerful aspect of being multi orgasmic. I am speaking as a man who has learnt these skills, and I’m speaking and teaching from my own personal experience.
Ejaculation energy is pure masculine heart energy, and considering the power of ejaculation is being able to create life it’s a powerful aspect for any man to consciously bring into love making.
Learning how to become multi orgasmic is your reward for opening your heart in your lovemaking (and the rest of your life!!)
Your trigger sensitivity is a protection that you subconsciously have created to keep yourself emotionally safe.
If you have other issues with your sexuality, such as numbness, trouble achieving or sustaining an erection, then these principles still apply, we just need to approach this in a slightly different way.
If you really desire to focus and fast track your learning, our specialised online course is with out a doubt, the most convenient and timely way of exploring this aspect of your sexuality.
Opening up to your multiorgasmic potential also means opening your heart.
Ask your partner how they feel about that ….?
From my own personal experience in learning and practising theses skills, the benefits and most importantly developing a deepening connection with life force energy is why we include this in all our work as an outline of what is possible for you and your partner.
Believe it or not, even after radical surgery, men are still capable of amazing sexual pleasure.
Just because your sexual function may have been impacted by surgery, your still capable in a way that is beyond your wildest dreams. This Tedtalk explains what is definitely possible for you, and Oztantra can teach you how to achieve this for yourself.
If you still have all your sexual function, becoming multi orgasmic will significantly impact on you in your relationship.
Learning how to last longer creates the opening for multi orgasm
Multi orgasmic man is just the beginning of truly enjoying your sexuality as a spiritual experience.
Imagine how it would be for you if when you reach your point of no return, that you still feel your ejaculation heat and intensity but instead of going down the other side, you can keep going higher and higher.
If your point of no return has been your finish in the past, then imagine how it could be for you that your point of no return becomes your new beginning…
It is simply having an awareness that this is possible for you and practise, practise practise.
Multi orgasm is an experience like no other..
Each time you go into this space within you, it is truly unique.
Your experience is never the same, each time is so wonderfully unique that sexuality becomes a truly spiritual experience.
This is a powerful place for any man to find in himself . Knowing that this is possible gives a focus for what is next.
Boredom during sex is definitely a thing of the past….
Workshops, sessions, couples skills
These skills are now incorporated in all our workshops and sessions, as we see these skills as such an essential and integral part of masculine sexuality.
Check out our free webinars for more detailed information on this and other topics.
As this space of lasting longer and becoming Multiorgasmic is so wonderfully unique, a personal phone or skype session may be more beneficial for you and your partner.
These sessions (and can be face to face if you’re in Byron Bay) are a powerful way of connecting with yourself in an honouring and sacred way, with lots of down to earth laughter as well.
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