A Male perspective for this Website
As a man, do you often wonder why most of the personal developmental language is hard to understand ?
And, if you do struggle sometimes to make sense of it all, then you are not alone.
In modern times, the tantric, sexual and personal development language is written and targeted towards more feminine perspectives in our culture, which unfortunately misses the mark with men.
This doesn’t mean that men don’t comprehend, but simply in language that men sometimes struggle to understand and connect with.
Annette and I work in relationships as a couple, and we are good at it because both sides of the topic are covered.
In my role, I enjoy talking with men about my passion, which is also what our websites represent.
I also have a lot of fun translating man talk into words where both men and women can gain clearer understanding of what is happening.
This simple little process usually has a significant impact on any relationship, as the language difference works both ways.
Be a man first…
As men, simply trusting and believing in what you’re feeling can have major ramifications in your lifestyle and quality of relationship with women.
I am hugely grateful for my background, as a farmer/earthmoving/civil contractor, particularly as I immerse myself in this later part of my life.
Having some pics of toys I used to own on a tantric web site is quite a shift….
So much of modern personal development expression is trending towards a “unified” language for men and women.
My personal opinion is this is not healthy, especially for men. As men, we have earned the right to be who we are and also have the right to reject attempts to change our natural way of being.
This may sound challenging, and for most of us probably is because most men don’t really know how to be.
Our lineage of men seriously lacks healthy male role models, men who can role model what a man is and how a man can be, especially in his healthy sexuality.
Currently, the term “toxic masculinity” is regularly thrown around with little accuracy into what this term actually means.
When I refer to masculinity, I refer to all aspects of being a man and how that is mostly a personal experience that is shared with other men.
How each of us choose to express this also reflects where we are individually in our own journey of discovery.
In this modern world, isolation of men (and women) is common place and men gravitate towards other groups that they feel they can connect with.
If this is you, then that is ok and choosing a group that reflects your own personal sense of self, whether it be sport, hobby, service club or what ever gets your attention.
Currently, the biggest men’s group on the planet is those men who pedal their bikes with others.
What ever gets your attention is what is important to you, as isolation quite often breeds unhealthy behaviours.
Being in a group with other men, especially if this is a choice that resonates with you will encourage conversation, trust and deeper friendship, which is what most men need.
In this place, men naturally care for each other and hold each other accountable for their words and actions.
We offer you a space to explore who you are
Through our websites, workshops, sessions and other products, my aim is to bring healthy masculine out into the open and create healthy masculine through our work, especially in sexuality. Simply having healthy interactions with other men will bring this out, and I can see this happening more and more regularly. It is working, slowly but surely.
If as a man you’re reading this and you are feeling something, I invite you to participate with us and bring your contribution to the healthy masculine out into the open.
It is also important for women to have their say and be part of this, as women also have their own issues to deal with and desperately need more healthy masculine in their lives as well.
Sounds like a WIN WIN situation (and lets have some fun during the process….)
Our recently released book “Coming Together” is an excellent resource for further in depth reading and learning