What is orgasmic priming?

Do you feel safe enough to actually have an all out, explosive, toe curling, full body orgasm?

Or even a endless, flowing, nurturing orgasm that leaves you uplifted?

Learn what orgasmic priming is and how it can help!

Did you know that so often we hold back in our deepest, most powerful surrender into pleasure and orgasm? 

And that we do this because our bodies, and our nervous systems, hold so much negative conditioning around pleasure and sexuality?

This conditioning that tells us it’s NOT SAFE to be that sexy, that surrendered, that ecstatic?

That it’s much safer to put on the brakes, to say “No” to expanded pleasure?

It’s not that we aren’t capable of moving into the most powerful pleasure beyond our wildest dreams. It’s because our conditioning doesn’t allow us to.

Here we’ll show you how to move beyond this conditioning with a practice called orgasmic priming.

And the good news is that it only takes 1 minute!

We often misinterpret our bodies desire to keep us safe – its most important job.

Instead of thinking our bodies are trying to protect us we think that we’re just not capable of having a full on orgasm. Or that we’re not that sexy, or that sexual or not able to have an orgasm. Or a hundred and one other reasons.

And then likely comes the thought that we’re broken somehow. Or that we’re wrong somehow.

What’s actually happening is that our mind is full of stories about the wrongness of our sexual desires, the wrongness of us, even the wrongness of sex itself. Even if we don’t realise we have these thoughts. It’s our nervous systems way to say “Keep safe”, “Don’t go there!”

When we do orgasmic priming our bodies and our nervous systems realise that not only is this kind of orgasm possible, it’s TOTALLY SAFE to do so.

With this short and simple practice of orgasmic priming you can super charge your orgasmic potential and blow open your expanded pleasure. By letting your brain and your body know how safely accessible this is for you.

Orgasmic Priming: The How

Orgasmic priming involves using your 5 senses – sight, feel/touch, sound, smell and taste. Your 5 senses make it as real in your body and nervous system as possible, bringing you into a full body experience. This helps your safety systems to soften and allow your deepest potential for pleasure to arise.

It is good to do this practice for a self pleasure orgasm (self pleasure is a highly rated tantric skill) AND one with a partner, at different times. This is because your body and your nervous system can behave differently in each of these situations. So it’s great to develop this skill set for both.

1. Set your timer for just 1 minute. For this minute fully delve into the experiences of your senses.
2. Close your eyes and see yourself having the most powerful, deepest and amazing orgasm that you desire. 
3. Sight: What do you see as you imagine yourself in the throes of a magnificent orgasm? Where are you? What are you doing? What are you wearing? How is your body moving? Where are you touching yourself? What is your lover looking like?
4. Feel/Touch: What are you feeling, what are the sensations, and where in your body? How open are you feeling? What emotions are you feeling? Where are you touching yourself and how does your own body feel to your touch? How does your lover’s body feel? Where are you touching them? Note: It is better to imagine yourself doing the touching, rather than your lover as this keeps the power of turn on in YOU.
5. Sound: What sounds are you hearing? Maybe there’s music in the background. Maybe you’re hearing your own breathing, your words or your sounds of pleasure, small or large. Or your lovers’ breath or the beautiful (or hot) words they’re whispering in your ear. 
6. Smell: Maybe there are scented oils in the room, in your perfume or the smells in nature. How does your body smell, what is its delicious turned on aroma? Or even what is your most favourite smell in the world? What is your lovers’ smell on their skin?
7. Taste: What can you taste? Run your tongue around in your mouth, how does it taste? How does your lover’s mouth taste? Imagine your most sensual foods being in your mouth and tasting them.

How often do you do this practice?

Set yourself the goal to do it every day for 1 week. 

Notice how your body responds after this. 

If your body is a yes, keep doing it, build on your orgasmic capabilities.

You can even bring it into your orgasmic routine, to create the most pleasurable orgasms you’re capable of on a regular basis. 

After all, it’s only for a minute.

So, are you ready to get started?