Sex is a great place to hide

Yes, even with all your clothes off! If you want more from your lovemaking take a moment to honestly ask yourself why are you really wanting sex- is it to feel pleasure, to feel loved, needed, affirmed, to release stress, to avoid intimacy, to feel connection, just to feel; or something else altogether? Being clear and honest in your intent, with yourself, and even better with your lover, frees up your connection to your heart and frees access to the Tantric energy in your pleasure.