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Our sex life is boring

What can we do about it?

Welcome to the club!

Most people at some stage of their relationships get to a place of boredom, routine and lack of real sexual desire, where you’re just going through the motions.

Where the rest of your relationship is ok, it’s just the sex that’s lacking.End your frustration The most challenging aspect of this place is being able to admit it.

Then talk about it.

Yet if you don’t acknowledge it and talk it over one of two things will happen over time.

Either your frustration will cause you to become emotionally toxic in your relationship, or your resentment will cause you to shut down and become emotionally unavailable.

Neither of these are good things for your relationship.  Further down the track one of you might take your sexual desires outside the relationship and start an affair- with porn, internet chat, a one night stand or something more substantial.

The first thing to know is that if you’re bored, frustrated or resentful most likely your partner is too and the best thing you can do about it IS to talk about it in a non judgmental way.

Reassure your partner that your boredom or Intimate sexualityfrustration is not their fault- it’s not that they’re not sexy, gorgeous, slim enough, or not performing well enough in bed.

You may be one step ahead and have already tried to spice things up with lingerie, toys, porn, new positions or locations; perhaps even handcuffs, a whip, or extra people in the bedroom.

These things can spice things up for a while but eventually you’re back to where you were, still with the feeling something missing.

This is where a Tantric approach to sex can help as it helps you connect with the pleasure that lives inside you, connected to your heart that makes lovemaking a whole new ball game…and it doesn’t mean you have to give up any of the above treats.

Using a tantric approach makes them even better!

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  • About
    • About Oz Tantra – Tantric Relationship Advice
    • About Graeme Sudholz
    • About Annette Baulch
    • Oztantra Media
    • Speakers Page
  • Relationship Counselling
    • Coming Together Book: Solving The Mystery of Intimate Sex and Relationship
    • Hot Relationship Topics
    • Relationship Counselling
      • Couples Ultimate Getaways Byron Bay
      • Oz Tantra On Line Relationship Course
      • Oztantra V.I.P
      • Healing trauma in Banks Creek
    • Online Relationship Counselling
    • Death of Sex
  • Sex
    • Coming Together Book Contents
    • Hot Sex Topics
    • Sex Counselling
    • Sexual Healing
      • Healing Sexual Abuse
      • Yoni Healing for Women
      • Lingam Healing
      • Beat Your Porn Addiction With Tantra
      • Sexual Surrogacy
    • What is Tantric Sex REALLY Like?
      • Tantric Coaching online
      • Couples Tantra Sessions
      • Individual Tantra Sessions for Women
      • Individual Tantra Sessions for Men
    • What Is Tantra?
    • How Tantra Prevents Boredom in the Bedroom…
    • Preventing Premature Ejaculation
      • Multi Orgasmic Man
      • Tantric Sex for Men – Podcasts
      • Separating Ejaculation and Orgasm
    • Gspot
  • Events
    • Couples Ultimate Getaways Byron Bay
    • Workshop Schedule
    • Retreats
      • Ecstasy and Intimacy Couples Retreat Bali
      • Couples Retreat Australia Ecstasy & Intimacy
      • Private Couples Retreats
    • Weekend Workshops
      • Power of Yoni – Explore the essence of who you are as a woman
      • Sexuality of the Heart
      • Oz Tantra On Line Relationship Course
      • Oztantra V.I.P
  • Blogs
    • Oztantra Blog
    • Previous Blog Posts
    • Videos
    • Tantric Lover Podcasts
  • Contact
    • Contact Us – Annette and Graeme at Oz Tantra
  • Articles
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    • Hot Relationship Topics
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