Something a little different this week…
Have you ever been in a place where it’s felt like your and your partners’ deepest fantasies have been at seemingly opposing places?
If you’ve even been game enough to share them…
Let’s hear from a fictional, yet realistic couple, Renee and Andrew that you might relate to…
Renee worked up the courage to ask Andrew, her relatively new lover, to live out one of her sexual fantasies. For as long as she could remember, she’d become super excited at fantasies of someone objectifying her and using her for their own pleasure.
That day, she was excited by the idea of Andrew pretending he had climbed in the window, after having seen her beauty from the street, and was using her for his pleasure. In her fantasy, he didn’t care what she wanted, he was just going to tie her up and do what he wanted.
She had no idea why, but she knew it was exciting, so she plucked up the courage and began to tell Andrew about it. In her mind, while it was edgy, she was seducing him with a playful idea for a fun romp.
Shortly into her blushing explanation, he leaned in and silenced her with a tender kiss, then cupped her face gently with his hands. He whispered softly, “That’s the last thing I want you thinking about when I’m making love with you! I don’t want you thinking about those sorts of things. I’m here to adore you and cherish you.”
How do you navigate this tricky situation?
Where BOTH Renee’s and Andrew’s opposing desires have a valid place.
If you would like to immediately find out in Renee and Andrew’s story when they have a go at playing out her fantasy READ ON HERE
If you would like to know about the story’s creator, and why we are bringing it to you see below…
This juicy little situation was brought to us by Artemisia De Vine, who is doing fabulous work educating people about understanding and navigating their deepest, darkest fantasises.
We’ve known Artemisia for a number of years now, as a former professional Dominatrix, and now sex educator. We can vouch for her professional skill as a Dominatrix, we’ll never forget the unique and creative sessions we did with her. We’re now hearing about her innovative way of looking at sexual fantasies and how they can potentially enhance our sex lives by giving our ego’s a safe place to surrender in.
For those of you who are wondering about the connection between seeing a Dominatrix and Tantra, we found that the art of surrender, state change and sexual healing we experienced in our sessions were absolutely in alignment with many of the core philosophies of tantra. Rather than transcending the (egoic) mind, when it is used in connection with the body and the spirit, it can help magic happen, rather than get in the way. In fact, Artemisia is soon launching her book on the subject called The Spirituality of Smut!
If you would like to find out what happens when Renee and Andrew have a go at playing out her fantasy on Artemisia’s free Blog READ ON HERE
If you would like to check out Artemisia’s free Masterclass on the subject click on the image below:
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