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More Intimate Sex

I want more intimacy in my sex life

Lacking it decreases my sexual desire

It feels an impossible ask…

Most often this desire is voiced by women, though not always, men desire it too.

For underneath everything else is the desire for love and connection.

Yet when she voices her desire in this way she is often pushing her man away, as he most likely feels that he is doing something wrong or being forced to do something that doesn’t make sense to him. It’s not that he doesn’t want to be intimate with her, it’s more that there is a language difference that derails his understanding of her desire. More importantly she is giving away her power. Because she is looking for this connection outside of 

More intimate sexherself. Another person can never meet us as deeply we can meet ourselves. So the place to start is to connect with ourselves first.

When a woman is connected to herself the other person can feel us more easily and be drawn toward her, rather than feeling like they have to meet her need… this is often the last thing she wants to hear when she’s looking for connection but believe us, it is the only way that really works.
When we seek to connect with ourselves first, rather than our lover, we automatically influence how they respond to us.

What do we mean by being connected with ourselves? Being able to literally feel ourselves, with awareness of our

Seld connection is key to more intimate sex.

physical body, our breath, our thoughts and feelings just as they are, not needing anything outside of ourselves, at ease in us. If you want more from another find it first in yourself.

And when a woman is connected to herself if her lover cannot meet her she cares less because she’s not missing anything. From this power position she can invite the other closer, or even challenge them if this feels appropriate. If she does challenge her lover to show up more from this place of connection with herself it feels authentic, harder to ignore or argue with. Sexier to meet.

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  • About
    • About Oz Tantra – Tantric Relationship Advice
    • About Graeme Sudholz
    • About Annette Baulch
    • Oztantra Media
    • Speakers Page
  • Relationship Counselling
    • Coming Together Book: Solving The Mystery of Intimate Sex and Relationship
    • Hot Relationship Topics
    • Relationship Counselling
      • Couples Ultimate Getaways Byron Bay
      • Oz Tantra On Line Relationship Course
      • Oztantra V.I.P
      • Healing trauma in Banks Creek
    • Online Relationship Counselling
    • Death of Sex
  • Sex
    • Coming Together Book Contents
    • Hot Sex Topics
    • Sex Counselling
    • Sexual Healing
      • Healing Sexual Abuse
      • Yoni Healing for Women
      • Lingam Healing
      • Beat Your Porn Addiction With Tantra
      • Sexual Surrogacy
    • What is Tantric Sex REALLY Like?
      • Tantric Coaching online
      • Couples Tantra Sessions
      • Individual Tantra Sessions for Women
      • Individual Tantra Sessions for Men
    • What Is Tantra?
    • How Tantra Prevents Boredom in the Bedroom…
    • Preventing Premature Ejaculation
      • Multi Orgasmic Man
      • Tantric Sex for Men – Podcasts
      • Separating Ejaculation and Orgasm
    • Gspot
  • Events
    • Couples Ultimate Getaways Byron Bay
    • Workshop Schedule
    • Retreats
      • Ecstasy and Intimacy Couples Retreat Bali
      • Couples Retreat Australia Ecstasy & Intimacy
      • Private Couples Retreats
    • Weekend Workshops
      • Power of Yoni – Explore the essence of who you are as a woman
      • Sexuality of the Heart
      • Oz Tantra On Line Relationship Course
      • Oztantra V.I.P
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    • Previous Blog Posts
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