How can we understand each other more
And communicate better?
Relationship Communication is about more than what we say, it’s also about what we think and feel…
Men and women are different, even in this homogenised, unisexual age when women are more like men than ever before. Whether this is due to our genes, our body, our conditioning etc experts are still arguing over. There is one place that we’re all the same. We’re all just trying to find the love we feel incomplete without, and it’s helpful to remember that. Even if we’ve buried this need so deep under our own bullshit that we can’t find it anymore, or we live the pain of this incompleteness every day we all have it.
We have some obvious differences in our physicality between men and women, in our desires, interests and the way we are about sex. We’re different in the way we communicate eg. Women are complex and want to analyse things, men tend to be straight up and let’s move on to the next bit. Some of the ways this impacts on relationships are laugh inducing and others, others soul destroying. We cover some of them here…
The most important thing to understand about relationship communication is that there is very little right and wrong, just a lot of this is how it is for me and that’s how it is for you!
And another is to remember that in relationship communication your feelings are equally as important as your thoughts and what you say. Yes fellas, if you want better relationship and better sex learning more about your feelings is non negotiable- this is because sex is a feeling too! Both men and women tend to do their feelings very poorly these days so read here for a little big secret that can chage that.