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I want to have an orgasm

And I can’t!

You’re lying there frustrated out of your mind…

You’ve heard all these stories about mind blowing orgasms and you believe every other woman on the planet is capable of getting there except for you. Your lover is lying beside you, understanding but feeling inadequate, or already over his edge. Your feelings of failure, frustration and inadequacy loom large.

The truth is that you’re NOT alone. Common statistics report that between 10-15% of women do not reach a peak sexual climax, with only 25% of women regularly experiencing orgasm from penetration alone. An important poinHappy woman who used to believe she can't have an orgasmt for us as women is that in striving for a masculine defined style of sex with a focus on only peak orgasm we’re missing out on experiencing the true nature of our own sexuality. For female sexuality is not about one orgasmic peak but a sustained ecstatic state, with full body sensations experienced as all over tingles, rolling waves with peaks along the way. In straining for the mentally induced peak climax women miss their own sexual language that is about relaxation, opening and surrender– for from little things big things grow. (The single climactic peak is not actually true for men either, but it’s the way they’ve been culturally conditioned. We’re a lot more alike than we think). We’re not saying there is anything wrong with hot sex and orgasmic peaks, in women it’s where we’re coming from inside ourselves that makes the difference.

To understand even more about a woman’s sexuality read on here…

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