Many women believe they don’t actually have a Gspot, because sometimes they like to hide…
However it’s more likely to be because it hasn’t been awakened yet.
Read on for more info about this gorgeous, but slippery little sucker…
The Gspot or a UFO?
Knowledge of a woman’s sexuality has grown over the years. We have come a long way from believing a woman’s expression of her sexual 
energy to be a “hysterical paroxysm” requiring some form of “treatment”, or that she wasn’t capable of sexual enjoyment, but had to “bear these things” for the benefits of motherhood.
Nowadays the modern woman is claiming her rights to “her” orgasms and finding new and creative ways of experiencing them.
Yet awareness of a woman’s G-spot is a relatively recent phenomena. For many years it was thought to have been as real as a “UFO”.
Medical science “discovered” the spot in the mid 1950’s, by a Dr. Grafenburg. Yet, this spot that provides unlimited possibilities for women to further know, enjoy and accept their bodies, their sexuality and themselves has been around for thousands of years. It was well accepted in ancient times of the Goddess, when sex was seen as a sacred practice. The Gpsot, or Sacred Spot as it used to be known, disappeared in the years women’s sexuality and power has been repressed by society. Even the clitoris disappeared from medical literature for a time…
In fact, learning and understanding access to this powerful source of feminine life force energy is a foundation practise of Tantra, particularly in the heart centred Tantra approach we take at Oztantra.
How is a Gspot different from a clitoris?
At a practical level yes, every woman is born with a G-spot. It exists as a mound of erectile tissue a half to full finger length inside the upper wall of her yoni (vagina), often not as far in as you might think. The gspot is not actually inside the yoni, but resides in the upper wall and can only be physically felt by touching when it has been “activated” or aroused.
When this happens, it feels like an area of raised ridges, a little like an almond which becomes more distended and easier to feel when aroused and sometimes can even feel like a small pearl.
The clitoris is an external organ that is largely responsive to direct stimulation and has an expected enjoyable physical response.
The G-spot is internal and has a much greater range of responses. In, or around this physical location, is the energy point of the Gspot and activating this is what takes the experience to a whole new level of ongoing waves of pleasure, emotion, even what can be described as spiritual experiences.
We tried to find an image of an ecstatically radiant post Gspot orgasmic woman to include here but it seems this quality can’t be faked, it only comes from the real thing, hence there are no radiant female images on this post!
A Gspot can be very intense!
Some women have spontaneous Gspot (or vaginal) orgasms through stimulation with the lingam (penis) or vibrator/dildo.
Some women have 
clitoral orgasms only, some have a mixture of both vaginal and clitoral, with or without the lingam/vibe/dildo.
For many other women, the G spot still remains an unknown experience. and generally takes a greater level of self awareness and even self acceptance in the woman for it to awaken in her. Our Power of Yoni workshop for women helps her understand and prepare herself for awakening to and enjoying this greater feminine intensity.
For her Gspot is part of her emotional body, one of the major energy centres in her body and experiencing it can bring an emotional intensity that can be unexpected, and occasionally even frightening, if she does not understand it.
But with knowledge and practice a woman (by herself or with a trusted lover) will find awakening this centre can allow her to access new levels of satisfaction in her sexuality that go a long way to fulfilling the intense emotional longings and frustrations that she usually hopes her partner can fulfil for her.
Knowing her body in this way can allow her to share with her partner from a place of wholeness rather than a craving for fulfilment from him. As learning from an “owner – operator” is the way to go….. if you’re wondering, struggling, confused or simply desire to learn more, contact Annette today for a confidential chat.
How can a Gspot be awakened?
To awaken the Gspot, use your (or ask your lover, or use a Gspot vibe) index or pointer fingers, going in to your Yoni (vagina) as far as you can, up behind the pubic bone, then curl your finger back a little.
Hold your finger in stillness for a few minutes and focus your mind on the spot where the finger is, take some gentle deep breaths and see if you can “connect” with it. Squeeze your pc muscles and feel how this moves the spot onto your fingers.
Making sure you’re using plenty of lubrication, tap gently and move your finger in a “come hither” movement. It works best if you slide your finger past the GSpot and “hook it” as you draw your finger backwards. You can also try moving your fingers Or toy) side to side, or up and down on the area, or simply hold still on it with sufficient pressure.
Sufficient pressure is often much more than you might think, it can be as firm as you can make it. Check in with her as to what she is feeling and keep exploring. Be curious, not pushy.
Some will feel something straight away and others may take quite a while and several attempts to activate the good stuff. If you feel nothing keep gently focussing on the spot and breathing, as this helps to heal the numbness. You might find there are some emotions that arise in you, don’t shut them down, allow them to move through you. If you find pain in your GSpot, that can feel like stinging, burning, even like razor blades, this too is blocked emotion, so breathe and feel through this too. Making the “sound” of the pain can help. Don’t judge yourself negatively, this is part of your sexual healing journey.
Keep believing that this amazing spot is real and exists is important, and just keep at it.
At all times during this exercise, just breathe deeply and focus on feeling your body.
Get to know your GSpot’s size, shape and moods, it can take much more pressure than your clitoris.
Feeling like you need to pee is usually one of the the first signs you’ve found it! Relax here and keep going. (Get up and have a pee if you feel you need to and come back).
Breathe deeply, relax and feel with no expectations.
Sometimes your lover can place the fingers of his other hand just above your pubic bone and press down gently, as this can help him find the spot by anchoring it between his two hands.
Some of the reasons the Gpsot can still be missing in action:
For more info on why your Gspot can be hard to find and what to do about it read on here
In conclusion
A GSpot orgasm is not another goal for a woman to reach. Ejaculation is not a “party trick” to perform on demand to please her partner. It is an opportunity for her, if she chooses, to know, love and accept herself at a deeper level. To know and accept her feeling self. To experience herself in her Goddess energy. It is a journey of personal awakening.
Learn at Home…
This is a guide for any man wanting to support his woman in awakening her GSpot…..
Our book, “Coming Together”has more detailed information,
including helpful diagrams on this topic…or…. you could try an online coaching session, (clothes on, of course) with both of us that will definitely speed up your exploration and discovery…or Email us here
These discovery or awakening skills are easily and regularly taught through our Online Course from the convenient privacy and security of your own home.
We teach both you and your partner, or just you, where you practise in the privacy of your home, with our back up support as required.
Contact us and discover for yourself how easy this can be for you….
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